How do we control whom to fall in love with.

There is nothing in this world that would solve this puzzle..
Albert Einstein say- Gravity is not responsible for people falling in love.

We are born with the need for abundant affection and love. We are often told that family loves is irreplaceable.
The question is, Is that enough?
Does the family get the right to rule over whom we love?
Does the society in where we are borned to inevitably control whom we are to love?
Is it some other omnipresent element present already that controls what our heart and mind feels?

Does a fellow human being control what the other fellow human being must think, or love?
Isn't it all Complicated.?

 Science plays a role in explaining what an amygdala is, hippocampus is, role of hormones.
 But it's still doesn't answer everything. Because "Love" is enexplicable to so many.

If that is the case, how do you convince the people around you to agree to what you agreed upon or rather, whom you agreed upon to.

Is it really that simple to escape yourself from this situation.?

Some one once said "love is like war, it's easy to start, but very difficult to end."

I say, Love is beautiful, until you think it's okay to get society involved with it.

your girlfriend is a chink?

so what happens when an indian boy starts dating a girl from the north east.?
well, this is exactly what happens..
     he looked at her, her fair porcelain skin was flawless, her small eyes had a slant of shooting star , her hair was softer than the silk , her lips was a perfect plump pout, she had a feet so small and dainty, and her perfect body.. He couldn't believe it, because he had always wanted a woman who would be flawless in every sense. He wanted her, he wanted to make his life perfect, he wanted to love her.

So, he approaches her. She finds his manners and gesture very warm and welcoming. They start dating.

All his friends find him cool, because he got a girl who does not belong to his community, and she is pretty. well, "what a catch!" that's what they think.
They post photos, collect some more "cool" tags from his friends.
His life gets better everyday,

 She cooks for him, she looks after him, she knits for him, she gifts him, they make love.
They are a perfect couple.
They talk about love, they talk about movies, they talk about places, they talk about holidays, they make love.
They talk about marriage, they make promises, they talk about kids, they talk about family,they make love.

Things get serious between them.
She asks him to take her home, meet the parents.
He is scared now..
Because, the truth is-
      she is just not the "take home" types.
      she is not somebody whom you can take "seriously"
      she won't fit in the society of his.

   
He begins to worry about his ties with his family, his ties with the community.
He begins to worry what the society will talk about them.
All of a sudden its only HIM.


They talk about the problems, they talk about breaking up.
She resists, he demands.
She holds on, he moves on.

There she is,
     She enters in her diary:-
He came
He saw
He liked
He talked
He laughed
He kissed
He hoped
He loved
He slept
He cried
He yelled
He hurt
He ended
He left..
.

The wait..

As i walk towards the sea, waves and sand hit my feet.
 I try to hold them back, and they're out of my reach..

 The breeze blows my hair wanting to free and let be. 
My thought's are ebbed, trying to create a pattern, I was not meant to think about you- but that's all i do.

 Not a single day goes by, when i don't think about you. The good, the bad. We may have fought over silly things, but we kissed over it. 
We have hurt each other, but we made up for it. 

Tho we didn't have the best moments, but those unhappy moments make those days my happiest days.

 The sea tells me you'll be back, and the hard days that are to arrive. 
The sun sets and the darkness crown's.
 Stars that appear play games with me, 
i try hard not to lose. 

But the silver moon has been watching me just like a grandpa would mysteriously watch over his grandchild- promising that thing's will be fine, all i have to do is Wait...